The latest AP story on interracial relationships created yet another wave of interesting comments from around the net. The true colors of some folks were seen in all of its glory.
From AJC:
“Most White woman that date black men are usually white trash or they want to be black. There are exceptions though but that is the majority I see. Most of the white women have several black baby daddy’s. I know some white men that date black woman, reason why, is because black woman usually take care of the family more and are not as needy as white woman.”
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“I’m a white female in Atlanta. I work with a lot of young black women and I can tell you the answer. As a group, they are usually downright crabby and intolerant of anyone messing with them. They are distrustful, b*** and lazy. It seems like the are all out to find a man to treat them like a princess. I have never seen a more spoiled group of brats as the 20 to early 30’s black women in my workplace.”
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“White women who date black men have poor self esteem. black men who date white women have a self hate problem.”
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“If I had a good black man in my life I would give him all the sandwiches he wants and then some, but they are so hard to find.”
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The real deal is that white girls give infinite-no-hesitation-anytime-you-want it gummy…simple as that…
of course when that’s done i prefer a strong black woman
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Topix.com
For one thing, white women keep themselves in shape and exercise, while black women sit around, watching TV, and eating fried chicken all day. Black women need to stop equating thick with in shape. Newsflash black women…thick means fat…
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When im driving I cant help but notice that there are soo many bm/w ww in FL where I live. What is it with them. I mean yes there are some very pretty caucasion women in the world but still there are soo many georgeous black women also.
But what really caught my mind was when I saw the cutest black guy with this scragly hair white woman…. and I was light WOW….. is it because these women are easy becuase there better or am i hating…….but I highly doubt the last two.
sooo please help me to understand brothers!!!!
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Only on the internet do you see sooooo many perfect educated black women with movie star looks who so-called “hate” thugs. Yeah, right. We all know good and well that’s what they prefer. PLEASE GOD let’s cut the BS. Try being a good college brotha out here and see the thanks you get from your sistas.
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Me personally, I just find white women more attractive on average and I can relate better to them culturally.
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Speechless!!
And finally, here is a comment from Dell Gines–commenter over at BookerRising (good quote, IMO):
“I for one could give a care less what folks think about me and my white wife.
None of you gave me five kids, none of you had my back when I was flat broke, none of you are being an excellent mother to my children. So why are you trying to assume I made a ‘error’ when if you subtract the race factor the things I value in a marriage I am getting?
Like my friend said once to a sister who was rolling her eyes when he was with a white girl…”Why you trippin? If I wasn’t with her I would be with you anyway”
Why don’t you concentrate more on finding a man as opposed to dissing men (and women) who find someone they want. Sounds like hateraid to me.”
ONCE AGAIN, JUST BLACK WOMEN BEING JEALOUS OF WHITE WOMEN BECAUSE WE SMELL BETTER, ARE MORE ATTRACTIVE, MORE INTELLIGENT, ETC, ETC, ETC. MAYBE IF YOU TOOK A SHOWER AND GOT A JOB BLACK MEN WOULD WANT YOU.
I agree with you. I’m a BM that loves WW. WW are the prettiest, loveliest, sexiest, finest species on the plant. Yes WW do smell better. Yes WW are shaped better. Yes WW are much prettier…..and that’s not to mention that soft, silky hair. You women are just great!!
‘ey brah!
There are some fine sistahs out there too! I’m married to one.
Eveerybody has their own taste, and I can respect that. But don’t diss the sistahs out there just because you may not found one to meet your liking.
I agree that there are attractive BW out there. I just think that overall WW are more attractive.
I like white girls for the same reasons as i would like any woman intelligence, grace, beauty, sex drive etc all are important. but i think we should also look at the underlying internal resentment in our community.
As a dark skinned black guy i have many times received a less than welcome reception from sisters because of my skin tone being darker than that of the average brother. I think we avoid talking about the divides which exist in our own communities by focusing on other races. There has been significant research which shows lght skin blacks are employed at a fifty percent higher rate an have higher earning potential than dark skin AAS. THIS MAY SOUND RACIST BUT HAVING LIGHTER SKIN HAS AN IMPACT ON HOW YOU ARE PERCEIVED BY THE GREATER SOCIETY AS A WHOLE AND THIS PREFERENCE TENDS TO EXIST ACROSS ALL RACES. SO IN CLOSING I DONT PREFER ANY RACE OF WOMAN OVER ANY OTHER BUT HAVING A CERTAIN COMPLECTION CAN AND WILL HELP MY CHILDREN THATS A FACT.
I wouldn’t touch someone that dated me because I’m white. I have no interest in being someone’s fetish. Certainly, I know black men who are attracted to white women primarily– and I know white women who fetishise black men. I think it is a matter of craving what is perceived as ‘taboo.’ But ultimately– that doesn’t make for a relationship.
I don’t discriminate when it comes to race. I have no preference. I’ve dated black, white, latino, asian and middle eastern. It seems to me that a solid relationship is based on mutual respect and caring for one another as individuals, as well as common ground- Love is a meeting of hearts and minds– anything less is basically self-deception.
My goodness, that woman featured in the picture looks like she’s ready for Sunnyvale Trailer Park, and a hot date with Ricky or Julian! The photo just screams “You can do me for a case of beer!” She should get he title of “Miss Two-Four”!
As my husband asked me before he died, why did you pick me out over any other guy? As I answered him as honestly and what the first thought was that popped into my head. I didn’t pick you but it was written so it is being done and God put us together, go through whatever happened til that moment in time; as he asked me about the other woman he dealt with when he found out he had lung/brain cancer, he said “Where would I be if I was still with Brenda (ex-wife) who cheated on him in front of his eyes, Carolyn (baby momma) not even sure he was the father at 16 yrs old and he said he would already be dead or would have left rather than stay to care for him; but it is what is on the inside not the outside what counts. I stayed with my husband, not leaving his side, died in my arms and white As the movie, The Diary of a Mad Black Woman”, she was black, he left her for a white woman, when he became paralyzed, the white wife left him and his black ex-wife came back to take care of him. So, why all the negativity, you don’t like it don’t look as my husband used to tell me “they can look all they want just don’t touch us to hurt, kill or bother.
That is why Baskin Robbins has 32 flavors of ice cream to choose what you like not what he/she likes or likes for you to get? Life is too short for negativity, just one day have a positively positive day and try it you just might like it instead of being miserable be fortunate, smile not frown, let someone in when waiting in traffic instead of in a hurry to go nowhere or no further than you would have been but may feel good, if that is possible. I asked why so negative answer negativity is the way of the world, but that doesn’t mean I have to be that way; just think if positivity was the way of the world, huh?
I dunno about this ‘white girl mystique’. Some of the hottest chicks right now seem to be ladies of colour like Halle Berry & Rosario Dawson. Of course here in Toronto there’s a large Caribbean community and believe me, some of these women are stunning!!!
Agent Orange,
I see that your undercover mission is over and you are finally able to come in from the cold to comment on this story.
Although I’ve heard that this story has lost it’s significance since first published; the sun has moved 3″ closer to the Earth instantly tanning any and all white women who do not remain indoors.
This has had the effect that black women no longer get angry when they see black men with white women (however now black men don’t know when they’re with a white woman).
It’s been suggested that Jesse Jackson and a super secret scientific foundation are behind this (which is why Essence Magazine is keeping the Rev. Jackson relevant).
BTW,
If your name is in reference to yours or a family members service in Viet Nam then I salute you and thank you.